thân em đi lấy chồng chung, khác nào như cái bung xung chui đầu
Married as the shared second wife — a shuttlecock everyone's head pushes through — polygamy from below.
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Married as the shared second wife — a shuttlecock everyone's head pushes through — polygamy from below.
A body through a hundred battles — veteran to the bone.
A body that makes its own life miserable — self-inflicted servitude to one's own habits.
The eel's lot doesn't mind a muddy eye — those born to the mud can't be precious about dirt.
A donkey's frame favors the load — the drudge who volunteers for heavier.
Collect much, remit little — the village-clerk's arithmetic, skimming between the taking and the passing on.
through day and night
Dangling like a squash blossom — tattered, drooping, coming apart.
A worthy wife spares her husband misfortunes; a devoted child eases the father's heart — the household's two great mercies.
If you like it, scoot closer — fancy it? Then move; the modern shrug that desire owes action.
The ways of the state of Trịnh — wanton, licentious carryings-on, after the proverbially loose ancient kingdom.
Office resigned, return to the village — power set down where it was first picked up.
Better never to have known — for every measure of knowing, that measure of heartache.
Through the literature, broad in the histories — deeply and widely read.
empty vessels make the most sound
Each to their own delight — every pleasure legitimate to its own keeper.
Marry a wife for more than a face — the match is with character; complexion is weather.
Thăm ngàn — Vietnamized Thai 'tham-ngan' (ทำงาน): to work, to grind; popularized by Thai-drama fandom.
Rising in office and swelling in fortune — the double blessing of the ambitious.
Fragrant as a jackfruit segment — praise for skin sweet and golden.
love means whipping, hate means giving sweetness and gentleness
Loving a husband means bending with him — swallow the bitter, savor the salt-warm; a wife's shared weather.
Loving her child she scrimps dawn to dusk — rice bundled in a shirt-corner, porridge wrapped in taro leaf.
The bow-wounded bird flies high from any bent branch — once burned, forever wary.
To love can be to harm — rescue billed to the rescuer; affection that costs its giver.
Missing father and mother like needles in the gut — a boat without a rudder; a child without parents, who shows the way.
to love others as much as oneself
In 'love,' the operative word is 'for' — to care is to put yourself out for someone.
Wounding morals and rotting custom — conduct that corrupts the public air.
Pity the cinnamon tree mid-forest — its heat unknown, its fragrance unguessed — worth wasted on the wilderness.
Pity the turtle's lot — bearing the crane at the đình, bearing the stele at the pagoda — burdens sacred and endless alike.
Pity womankind — older by two or three years, and still ranked the junior.
to beat brutally
may you have a safe journey; bon voyage
Gold above, rice-bran below — everything from the finest to the cheapest.
Massive learning, thorough scholarship — erudition beyond the common measure.
To give up something small in order to gain something bigger — a small bait for a large catch.
Release the minnow to catch the snakehead — small bait surrendered for the bigger fish.
release a small fish to catch a big fish
Setting leeches on the softshell turtle — feeding one pest to another; a children's chasing game.
Treating human lives as roadside weeds — power that mows people without counting them.
Shallow schemes lose to a woman's wits — underestimate her intelligence and pay the tuition.
Squat as a duck — built low to the ground.
Torch-hunt wealth and never see it; sword-chase poverty and it follows behind — fortune obeys fate, not pursuit.
Close to the English saying: “Failure is the mother of success.”.
Lost at the east corner, recovered at the mulberry-west — the day's loss returned by evening's gain.
Dig where it's crumbly, chisel where it's soft — working every easy mark for all they'll yield.
Seeing one's ancestors — run so far past exhaustion you glimpse the other side.
Mistaking red for ripe.
The banyan keeps a god, the kapok keeps a ghost — each great tree its own resident spirit.
Divine devices and miraculous sums — strategy so exact it reads like prophecy.
the person in question is/was scared of their own shadow; the person in question inadvertently scares/scared themselves; the person in question has/had an irrational fear
kind of bird-like monster in Vietnamese folklore that pecks the dead
Lips gone, teeth cold — lose the neighbor and the frost reaches you; allied fates, adjacent walls.
Appearing like gods, vanishing like spirits — maneuvers too quick and clean for any eye to fix.
to see only a part of the whole; to draw incorrect conclusions due to a partial understanding
The abbot has the goods, the monk has the labor — one supplies, the other sweats; partnership of purse and hands.
Utmost urgency, extreme peril — the situation at its most critical.
Careful at the ending, mindful of the distant — devotion that survives the parents it honors.
Ambush on ten sides — surrounded so completely that every direction is the trap.