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Absence weakens affection — when people no longer see each other, their hearts drift apart.
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Absence weakens affection — when people no longer see each other, their hearts drift apart.
Far kin tire the feet, near kin tire the mouth — distance costs visits; proximity costs words.
Carted and measured by the bushel — the mediocre come in bulk; excellence is counted by the piece.
Far off lies Côn Đảo the prison isle — the exile's landmark, sung at a distance no boat wants to close.
Don't fear the distance — far from the person, far from the voice, but the heart has not moved.
Green beards rule, white heads serve — rank outranks age, however the elders grumble.
Spinning the rope that binds oneself — complications hand-braided at home.
watching TV or films
Close to the English saying: “A workman is known by his chips.”.
The polite "with your permission" — announced before leaving a meal, entering a room, or interrupting elders; Vietnamese courtesy in two syllables.
Texting shortcut for “xin lỗi” — sorry.
the movie has ended
"Done / finished / all set" — the two syllables that close a meal, a job, a haircut; rising-context "Xong chưa?" asks, "Xong rồi" answers.
Unlucky; doomed-day energy — “xu” from xui (unlucky) plus a fruity flourish.
Egging on the plaintiff and goading the defendant — stirring both sides of a quarrel for one's own profit.
Spring does not come twice — the one green season is the one you're in.
Overseas service to redeem one's name — a fault worked off on a foreign mission.
Married, she follows the husband — the middle clause of the old three-followings code.
What leaves by your hand returns by your hand — issue and repayment share an address.
synonym of xuống lỗ (“to die”)
Down the falls, up the rapids — a course of nothing but hard water.
Talking nonsense, wildly off the mark — the viral Southern pronunciation of "sai lơ" (dead wrong), immortalized by the "nói xà lơ" clip.
Silly nonsense talk — the doubled, dismissive form of "xàm": what you call chatter that is both pointless and a little annoying.
to add insult to injury
Tearing the sleeve to patch the hem — poverty's tailoring, robbing one edge for the other.
The sticky rice failed and the puffed rice came to nothing — every attempt ending empty-handed.
(figurative, disapproving) a feast-chaser or philistine — someone whose horizons end at the banquet table: greedy for material perks, indifferent to culture or principle. From the sticky rice and meat of village feasts; "chủ nghĩa xôi thịt" (xôi-thịt-ism) names the whole self-serving mindset.
Petrol cut with engine oil — a jeering label for bisexuality; dated and unkind.
singers and (more generally) musicians are immoral
Discarding the near to chase the far — the treasure at your feet traded for a rumor over the hill.
To dump the goods — unload a position hard and fast, flooding the market; what the big players do the moment the hype peaks.
Blowing off the exhaust valve — venting steam before the engine bursts.
The deft get the work, the clumsy get the rest — skill is rewarded with more labor.
Knocked every which way — battered about until there's no move left to make.
Poor script, sound meaning — homely outside, worthy within.
Poor wood under fine varnish — surface investment where substance is missing.
The plain love adornment, the ignorant love book-talk — each lack shops loudest for its own cover.
A bad leaf shames the roll; a bad sister shames the elder — flaws are contagious along every bundle and bloodline.
Weak blood craving the rich dish — appetite pointed exactly where it does the most harm.
Ugly as a ghost — looks that startle.
Homely as he is, he's my husband — the handsomest man is still somebody else's — fidelity's tart arithmetic.
Evenly plain beats patchily fine — better all-around modest than brilliant in spots.
The flock scattered, the calf lost — one breakup and every dependent is adrift.
The thirteen banes — the mahjong-hand name repurposed for a full house of vices.
Fainting sideways — collapsing theatrically from shock, cuteness, or a price tag; often doubled as "xỉu ngang xỉu dọc" (fainting in every direction).
Fainting up AND down — the Vietnamese-English mashup for being repeatedly, comprehensively overwhelmed.
Pretty darn premium — Northern "phết" tempers "xịn" into impressed understatement: better than expected, worth saying so.
Fancy-schmancy — playful upgrade of "xịn" (premium) for anything impressively swanky, from gadgets to wedding setups.
Frozen in place — so stunned you’re hairspray-set where you stand.
synonym of ba que xỏ lá
Those far from the source of information are uninformed, while those close are overwhelmed
Those far from the issue are unaware, while those close are desensitized
Far from supervision or control
Those far from power are often ignored, while those close are often bothered
To have a promising and successful future
Distant relationships require more effort to maintain than close ones
Physically distant but still close at heart
Distance leads to nostalgia and longing
Distant relatives are more helpful than nearby neighbors
Distant things seem attractive, but nearby ones are unpleasant