bôi tro trát trấu
to tarnish; to besmirch
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to tarnish; to besmirch
The snake in the wine cup — a shadow mistaken for poison; illness by imagination.
Worth the rosy cheeks' while — effort repaid; the beauty's pains not wasted.
it is always darkest before the dawn
Cinch the purse-string tight — thrift at the drawstring.
You can cover a jar's mouth or a crock's — nobody covers the world's — the one vessel without a lid.
Covering the ears, playing deaf — refusal upgraded to disability.
Eating anywhere, talking anyhow — grazing and blurting with no manners at all.
White-haired and still foolish — age without its promised wisdom.
A woman whose hair turns white before its time — from the Chinese tale of the White-Haired Girl, an image of deep suffering.
From a white hut rise ministers — greatness starts in unpainted houses.
How old are you?
The check-in question: "do you have rooms left?" — "còn" (still have) is the load-bearing word for any availability question.
Do you have any children?
Clam and snipe locked fast, the fisherman profits — the full-length telling of the two rivals and the third who wins.
The textbook "how are you?" — fine with strangers your age, but real speech swaps "bạn" for the right kinship word: "anh/chị/em khỏe không?".
How are you?
What do you do for work?
What do you do for a living?
Where do you work?
Sorry? What did you say?
Where do you live?
Do you work or study?
Are you married or single?
Where are you from?
When the clam and the snipe grapple, the fisherman profits — two rivals locked in struggle only hand the prize to a third.
Wrestling tigers barehanded and wading great rivers — courage with the planning left out.
Bold-mouthed — daring to say straight out what others swallow.
Quick to flare, quick to fade — fortunes that bloom overnight wither by morning.
Gold rolls and stone steles — achievement carved into the permanent record.
Hauling firewood to fight the fire — a remedy that feeds the disease.
Not lame at seventy? Don't boast of soundness yet — infirmity keeps its own calendar.
Don’t boast of your luck before seventy — until the story is over, fortune can still turn; no one gets to declare victory over fate mid-game.
Seventy still learns from seventy-one — there is no age past apprenticeship.
to buzz someone in
Not your affair? Don't put your head in — uninvolved is a position worth keeping.
Scruples be damned — pursuing the goal by any device whatever.
Out of touch with human feeling — conduct by private code, deaf to how people are.
Immovable and unshifting — fixed once and for all, never to change.
Don't weigh heroes by win and loss — battle luck is no measure of the man.
Resent not heaven, blame not others — peace begins at accepting one's lot.
Unashamed to ask those below — the wise take instruction wherever it lives.
Thudding along without restraint — eating, drinking and doing exactly as appetite dictates.
poor people are going to do what they must to get by
The gourd climbs, and the squash vine climbs after — imitation scaling the same trellis.
love thy neighbor as thyself
Seven times afloat, three times under — a fate tossed like a rice-cake in the pot; Hồ Xuân Hương's phrase for a woman's lot.
"Really busy" — the standing reply of modern life; append "để bữa khác nha" (another time, okay?) to soften the decline.
A tongue-twisting lái chain — "reveal the secret that got lost" — said for fun or to tease someone who just spilled something.
Snapping back like shrimp on a griddle — quick, crackling retorts to everything.
Pot on the fire, waiting for rice — preparation outrunning supply.
Set a ladder to the old moon and ask: is a girl's fate truly rain scattered mid-sky — landing in a clear well if lucky, in hardship if not.
To shoot the wild goose at the cloud's edge — to triumph brilliantly in a difficult examination.
Fire and miss, and you owe the bullet — failed attempts still bill their ammunition.
No good at mousing, expert at fouling the kitchen — useless where needed, busy where not.
monkey see, monkey do
Catching the loach in the water-jar — the sure thing, staged in a container.
Grabbing the loach by the tail — the hold that guarantees escape.
If you cannot make up your mind which of two things you should do, you are liable to get yourself into difficulties by doing neither.
Catching frogs into a saucer — no sooner in than out; custody that cannot hold.