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Sealed gates and high walls — respectability engineered as architecture.
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Sealed gates and high walls — respectability engineered as architecture.
Tight thatch beats sound timber — better a humble roof that keeps the rain out than fine beams that don't.
The formal letter/email opener — "respectfully addressed to" — mandatory register for officials, professors, and cover letters; never spoken aloud.
if you respect the elderly, you'll extend your lifespan
to respect yet keep one's distance; to respectfully distance oneself
Quick of mouth, slow of foot — the tongue sprints where the legs won't follow.
Squeezed on the goods — trapped in a losing position you cannot exit without making the loss real; the daily condition of half the forum («kẹp từ đỉnh»).
"Traffic's terrible" — the Sài Gòn excuse that needs no proof; Northern speech says "tắc đường" for the same misery.
Kẻ Sặt — where the land keeps its margins and the village its ways — a town famed for order and custom.
One grudges the effort, the other the interruption — two thrifts colliding over the same task.
Deep with some, cold with others — favor rationed by private ledger.
One tosses, the other catches — a duet of collusion; patter perfectly rehearsed.
Six of one, half a dozen of the other — two rivals so evenly matched there is nothing to choose between them. The scales are rigged into a draw: in the old sixteen-lạng system, tám lạng (eight lạng) IS exactly nửa cân (half a cân).
some have it all while others have nothing
Knotting grass and holding the ring — a vow to repay deep kindness even from beyond the grave.
Shoulder to shoulder, wing to wing — standing and working side by side for one goal.
Wishing to stand, help others stand; wishing to arrive, help others arrive — self-making by making others.
The donkey's one kick — a fearsome show with a single trick behind it, as the tiger discovered.
Once astride the tiger, dismounting is the danger — some positions permit no graceful exit.
physiotherapist
To start a new business or career
To open one's eyes to new knowledge or understanding
Pioneering or groundbreaking work
Reward the worthy and punish the guilty
Reward the meritorious and punish the wicked
litter tray
Small amounts are insufficient to meet needs
To keep something strictly confidential
Praise someone for their skill in creating a beautiful facade
Praise someone for their skill, but also acknowledge their limitations
Praising something makes it better, criticizing makes it worse
Praise someone for a skill they have not yet demonstrated
Praise someone to encourage their good behavior
Don't judge something too quickly
Praise something until there's nothing left to praise
Praising others is good, but criticizing is bad
Praise someone for their wealth or success
Praise is not as good as reward
Praise someone to their face
To warmly welcome and generously treat one's guests
To ignore someone after they've helped you
People seek help when in need, but ignore others when successful
Each takes advantage of the other's weakness
When you're wealthy, help others, or no one will help you when you're poor
When prosperous, one doesn't help others, and when in trouble, no one helps them
When successful, no one relies on you, but when in trouble, you can't rely on anyone either.
Act impulsively when angry
Act rashly when angry
People often speak harshly when angry but kindly when calm
during special occasions or holidays
Don't give up halfway through a task
Be kind to others when things are going well, and they will help you in difficult times
When one is well off, few people visit, but when in trouble, many acquaintances appear
When one is prosperous, few people visit, but when in trouble, many acquaintances appear
When pleased, one gives generously, but when angry, one demands even the smallest things.
Teach children well when they are young
Teach children well when they are young
A small problem becomes a big issue
When...?
To yield to someone's wishes to avoid conflict