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Friendship rests on good faith — without trust there is no friend to speak of.
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Friendship rests on good faith — without trust there is no friend to speak of.
reluctantly agree
missing; whereabouts unknown; complete radio silent
Shutting the door to chase out the thief — a cure that locks the disease inside.
to cut off a country from the outside world
Traditional tone placement spelling of bế quan toả cảng.
To gang up on someone as a group; a mob beating (related to "đánh hội đồng").
When those above keep no order, those below make wind and rain — misrule breeds misconduct downward.
Seas run shallow and mountains wear down — time changes all things; also an image for a vow meant to outlast them.
A plan or deal that falls through; to flake on an arrangement (kèo = a bet or plan).
Illness comes in via the mouth because of food and trouble goes out via the mouth because of words; carefulness required in diet and speech
When misery bottoms out, prosperity turns in — the wheel's lowest point is where it rises.
is rich in this is poor in that; (figurative) one cannot have it both ways
to have high or low blood pressure
For a demon's illness, a fairy's medicine — extraordinary ailments summon extraordinary cures.
Sickness enters by the mouth; calamity exits by it — one gate for both directions of ruin.
to fool oneself, to bury one's head in the sand
Leaving the ball to kick the man — abandoning the issue to attack the person.
(phrase) Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see bỏ, mẹ.
to turn a deaf ear
"Let it slide" — advice to drop a grievance; between friends it's mercy, from elders it's a verdict.
Discard it and grieve; keep it and suffer — the dilemma of what can neither stay nor go.
A Northern rebuke for cheeky, insolent talk or brazen nonsense — between friends it lands as "you're full of it", from an elder it is a genuine scolding.
Utter insolent rot — barefaced, uncultured nonsense.
To take out a street loan — an informal «họ» rotating-credit payout turned loan-shark product: you collect a lump sum and repay in steep daily installments; a staple of Northern black-credit stories.
Forty-nine meets fifty — two of a kind colliding: opponents so evenly matched (and often equally stubborn) that neither can get the upper hand; said with a grin when a quarrel or contest refuses to produce a winner.
Sea-drift gathered into one house — strangers washed together until they're family.
Minding the baby excuses the rice-milling, and the reverse — one back cannot carry two jobs at once.
the same tired old trick; the same trite trope
Netting wind and grabbing shadows — chasing what no hand can close on.
Rake the duckweed and find the vermin — inspect anything closely and out crawl its faults.
Scratching soil and picking grass — subsistence at the fingernail level.
One bowl fewer, a cooler face — eat a little less and keep your dignity intact.
The bargaining ask: "can you take a little off?" — friendly haggling is expected at markets; smiles win discounts, indignation doesn't.
Tease too far and it turns true — the joke that crossed into fact.
The old rogue caught in a berry-snare — a lifetime of cunning undone by the simplest trap.
Belly tells gut — to say something to oneself, keeping the thought private.
Empty belly, frozen back — want attacking from inside and out.
The Buddha of your own pagoda works no miracles — the familiar is never revered; experts are strangers at home.
familiarity breeds contempt
No hen dares peck the Buddha on his altar — station protects; who strikes at the enthroned?
Gossip or talk excessively
Three women have four disagreements
Having many friends and relatives to rely on
Having many casual acquaintances but no close friends
Many people working together can accomplish more
Many people working together can accomplish more
Vietnamese proverb; English definition pending editorial review.
Three sevens — twenty-one days: the proverbial shelf life of any new resolve or reformed habit; said with a smirk about changes that won’t stick.
Surrounded by problems or difficulties
Every place is the same, no matter where you go
Someone who is strict and likes to criticize or scold children
Three fathers and seven mothers — a mismatched jumble of origins or authorities; things (or people) assembled from too many sources to ever quite match.
Many problems arise after an initial difficulty
One person can have many skills
To be wandering or drifting from place to place
Wealth and power can corrupt even the most virtuous people
Many problems arise when one issue is being resolved
While some problems are being solved, others are getting worse
Vietnamese proverb; English definition pending editorial review.