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Scrimping and saving for the tiger to eat — a lifetime's hoard served to the predator in one sitting.
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Scrimping and saving for the tiger to eat — a lifetime's hoard served to the predator in one sitting.
Charm-deficient — jokes and comments that land wrong; tactlessness dressed as humor.
Picky with the fish, choosy with the soup — fastidiousness auditioning every option.
Pulling the plow to pay the debt — labor mortgaged years ahead.
Cock-crow imitators and dog-thieves — the lowly hangers-on whose small tricks save great lords, as in Mengchang's tale.
Generous where thrift was owed, thrifty where generosity was — kindness distributed by the wrong map.
The father stole the sheep and the son testified — honesty that breaks a deeper duty; kin owe each other cover.
The whale swallows, the silkworm nibbles — encroachment by gulp or by inch, both eat you whole.
Sealed gates and high walls — respectability engineered as architecture.
Tight thatch beats sound timber — better a humble roof that keeps the rain out than fine beams that don't.
The formal letter/email opener — "respectfully addressed to" — mandatory register for officials, professors, and cover letters; never spoken aloud.
if you respect the elderly, you'll extend your lifespan
to respect yet keep one's distance; to respectfully distance oneself
Quick of mouth, slow of foot — the tongue sprints where the legs won't follow.
Squeezed on the goods — trapped in a losing position you cannot exit without making the loss real; the daily condition of half the forum («kẹp từ đỉnh»).
"Traffic's terrible" — the Sài Gòn excuse that needs no proof; Northern speech says "tắc đường" for the same misery.
Kẻ Sặt — where the land keeps its margins and the village its ways — a town famed for order and custom.
One grudges the effort, the other the interruption — two thrifts colliding over the same task.
Deep with some, cold with others — favor rationed by private ledger.
One tosses, the other catches — a duet of collusion; patter perfectly rehearsed.
Six of one, half a dozen of the other — two rivals so evenly matched there is nothing to choose between them. The scales are rigged into a draw: in the old sixteen-lạng system, tám lạng (eight lạng) IS exactly nửa cân (half a cân).
some have it all while others have nothing
Knotting grass and holding the ring — a vow to repay deep kindness even from beyond the grave.
Shoulder to shoulder, wing to wing — standing and working side by side for one goal.
Wishing to stand, help others stand; wishing to arrive, help others arrive — self-making by making others.
The donkey's one kick — a fearsome show with a single trick behind it, as the tiger discovered.
Once astride the tiger, dismounting is the danger — some positions permit no graceful exit.
physiotherapist
initialism of liên lạc (“to contact”)
Wolf heart and cur conduct — appetite with the leash cut; shameless, predatory ways.
Skittish as unsalted spring onion — so hasty it scatters everywhere, like onion flying off the board.
Toil of the muscles is less than toil of the heart — worry wounds deeper than work.
Shaking heaven and heaving earth — an event that astonishes everyone.
Stuck-up, “extra” — chảnh spelled as citrus: lemon + a Vietnamese hook mark, because chảnh sounds like chanh (lemon).
a young, gentle, and fragile woman
to be mindful of one's surroundings and circumstances to choose the right options
Read the wind before waving the flag — commitment timed to the gust.
to needlessly worry
Worrying whether the ox's teeth are white — anxiety assigned to a problem that does not exist.
The loan and phoenix sharing mangoes — a dream of a perfectly matched union.
Small-time and shaky — lacking skill, backbone or standing; a dismissive label for a person or operation that is not at the level: half-hearted, unserious, easy to ignore.
world-shaking; earthshattering
The “law of fruit-ma” — karma, respelled: nhân (cause/karma) also means “kernel”, so the internet swapped in fruit.
In practice, local custom outweighs distant formal authority — the village’s rules beat the king’s law.
to feign; to pretend
Central Vietnamese "what are you doing?" or rhetorical "why even?" — same grammar as standard "làm gì" with the Central "chi".
Leaning on clout and leaning on spirits — importance borrowed from every altar available.
to work and earn, to be a salaryman
Daughter-in-law to a grand house, son-in-law to a house of many sons — the two hardest marriages to keep with honor.
'Getting rich isn't hard' — the seminar-hall catchphrase of easy-wealth preachers, quoted mostly in irony.
A flat denial — "no such thing / no way that happened". Rejects a claim as impossible before it gets any further.
Born a flower, picked; born a girl, trifled with — the verse's bleak equation of beauty and use.
To give it everything — total effort with nothing in reserve; the promise before the attempt and the consolation after it.
A buffalo's lot — born to haul; the laboring life assigned at birth.
To be big is to answer big — rank means carrying rank's troubles.
Hired labor, unpaid — the wage that evaporates between promise and payday.
To be a person is to measure and weigh — balance heavy against light, sound the shallow and the deep.
Do a kindness, catch a charge — philanthropy billed as the crime.
Becoming an official is easy; becoming worthy of it is hard — the office arrives faster than the dignity.
"Can we get to know each other?" — the classic, slightly formal way to introduce yourself to a stranger you'd like to know; sincere, not sleazy.