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Borrowing a pig's head to boil porridge — staging wealth with borrowed props.
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Borrowing a pig's head to boil porridge — staging wealth with borrowed props.
Scolding a man is schooling him — your breath spent, his wisdom gained; the rebuked walks off with the profit.
Nothing shows like the hidden — the secret is the loudest thing in the house.
The people's lives weigh heaviest — no charge is graver than a human life.
What fate holds will come; what fate lacks, don't force — the ledger of one's portion is already written.
Whoever's strong does as they please — everyone charging off their own way with no coordination.
The strong spend strength, the weak spend stratagem — every build of person has its own lever.
Strong in rice, bold in money — courage that rises with the pantry.
deceiver, swindler, fraudster, scammer
Trade follows willingness — a sale both sides wanted leaves nothing to repent.
To take precautions only after the loss has already happened.
to lose everything, including initial investment
to be gone without a trace after committing misdeeds
Feelings bruised, kinship intact — the quarrel stops short of the blood.
Offend first, please after — the honest word stings today and earns trust tomorrow.
Lose a mouthful and the liver flips overhead — no rage like the rage over a plate.
"The internet's down" — deliciously, "mạng" means both network and life, so this also reads "I've lost my life": accurate.
Lose one, repay ten — restitution at punitive scale.
Brainless-mode — doing something so dumb your brain looks uninstalled; usually self-deprecating or teasing.
a tragic, distressing, miserable situation (like losing one's book of rations)
overthinking, worrying, and stressing out to the point of not eating or sleeping well
To lose motivation — the tank hits empty even though the to-do list hasn't; modern shorthand for drive gone missing.
"What time is it?" — the essential clock question; "rồi" makes it about NOW, usually with mild alarm attached.
What time is it?
"What time do you close?" — ask it early; the answer decides whether tonight's plan survives.
When did rice-cake ever have bones; when did a stepmother ever love her husband's child — the bitterest of family proverbs.
Rural Central–Southern "doing what?" — "mần" is the folksy pronunciation of "làm" (to do), giving the question a countryside warmth.
Honey and fat rescue the clumsy cook — rich ingredients forgive poor hands.
sweet words are poison; a honey tongue, a heart of gall
Little honey, many flies — demand entirely out of scale with supply.
Southern "why on earth...?" — half question, half protest, when someone's behavior makes no sense to you.
to be shocked; to be gobsmacked
Phoenix eyes and silkworm brows — the classical specification of a beautiful face.
A fasting face over stone brows — impassivity past embarrassing.
A face drained of its last drop of blood — white with terror.
A face thick as rice cake — brazen; armored against all shame.
shameless; barefaced
A flower face and powdered skin — fresh, silken feminine beauty.
A level face and a straight nose — presentable; nothing to apologize for.
Powdered face and rouged mouth — a woman all surface, painted for display.
A face blank as a chopping block — shameless; impervious to embarrassment.
Green face and yellow fangs — the physiognomy of menace, or of ruinously hard living.
Mistletoe crowding the branch — the guest outgrowing its host.
No one speaks well of the daughter-in-law to the mother-in-law, nor of the mother-in-law to the bride — the household's oldest cold front.
An aged mother is a banana ripe on the tree — one gust and she falls, and the child is orphaned — cherish her while the stem holds.
An old mother in a thatched lean-to — visit at dawn and again at dusk, or a child's heart cannot rest.
Mother hen, duckling brood — when has a stepmother doted on the husband's child; mismatched care, thinly given.
A mother feeds her child by the sky and sea; the child feeds its mother counting the days — devotion downstream, arithmetic upstream.
round mother, squared baby
Soft, they mold you; hard, they let go — the world kneads the pliant and drops the firm.
Rice dear as pearls, firewood dear as cinnamon — famine prices; the cost of bare survival gone mad.
A Central groan of weariness — "so tiring / what a drag". The "rứa" turns an ordinary complaint into unmistakably Central speech.
Long strength and broad shoulders — youth built for carrying; and expected to.
to be cuckolded (by one's wife)/cuckqueaned (by one's husband); to be cheated on (by one's spouse)
Termites of the people, blight of the state — officials who eat the beams they were hired to guard.
Thin lips love to blab — physiognomy's warning label for gossips.
A long rainbow floods, a stubby one rains — the farmer's sky-reading rule.
Fatherless, cling to uncle's leg; motherless, to auntie's breast — the kin the orphan is owed.
Different trees have different flowers; different families have different situations. / Every family goes through its own problems.
to each his own (every person is entitled to his or her personal preferences and tastes)