mẹ tròn con vuông
round mother, squared baby
All languages English Tiếng Việt
round mother, squared baby
Soft, they mold you; hard, they let go — the world kneads the pliant and drops the firm.
Rice dear as pearls, firewood dear as cinnamon — famine prices; the cost of bare survival gone mad.
A Central groan of weariness — "so tiring / what a drag". The "rứa" turns an ordinary complaint into unmistakably Central speech.
Long strength and broad shoulders — youth built for carrying; and expected to.
to be cuckolded (by one's wife)/cuckqueaned (by one's husband); to be cheated on (by one's spouse)
Termites of the people, blight of the state — officials who eat the beams they were hired to guard.
Thin lips love to blab — physiognomy's warning label for gossips.
A long rainbow floods, a stubby one rains — the farmer's sky-reading rule.
Fatherless, cling to uncle's leg; motherless, to auntie's breast — the kin the orphan is owed.
Different trees have different flowers; different families have different situations. / Every family goes through its own problems.
to each his own (every person is entitled to his or her personal preferences and tastes)
Other times, other ways.
Each night I light a lamp to heaven, praying my parents live alongside me forever — the child's nightly petition.
One madam, two masters — a household arithmetic guaranteed to quarrel.
One bowl of porridge, three fields' run — a trifling gain chased across real distance.
One step up to fairyland — an overnight leap from ordinary (or hard-up) straight into wealth, rank or comfort, skipping the climb everyone else makes.
One foot stepping out, ten stepping back — a farewell the legs keep refusing.
Nine against ten — barely a hair between two people or things; so close in quality, skill or looks that ranking them feels arbitrary.
Whoever taught you one word is your teacher — half a word, still your teacher: gratitude to those who taught you is owed in full no matter how small the lesson. The vernacular twin of the Sino-Vietnamese «nhất tự vi sư, bán tự vi sư».
One swallow does not make a spring — a lone sign, effort or person cannot carry the whole season; collective change needs numbers.
One horse falls ill and the whole stable refuses grass — fellowship grieving as one body.
One worm sours the whole pot of soup — a single bad actor ruins the group’s name and everyone’s appetite; the Vietnamese take on the rotten apple.
Even one silkworm needs its mulberry picked, even one buffalo must stand its field — the smallest charge is still a full duty.
Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see một, cách.
Better a lean peace than a fat victory.
One swallowed retort is worth nine kind sentences — restraint is the cheapest peace ever bought.
One tree makes no mountain; three trees clustered make a high peak — union as elevation; Vietnam's great verse of solidarity.
One person alone achieves little; people united can accomplish great things.
to kill two birds with one stone
to kill two birds with one stone
One neck in two yokes — crushed under two masters, or two heavy duties at once.
Close to the English saying: “Blood is thicker than water.”.
One old and one young come out even — second childhood meets first; the circle closes level.
The beer-table chant: "one, two, three, GO!" — roared in rounds, glass raised; the sound of a Vietnamese nhậu in full swing.
Break faith once, be doubted ten thousand times — trust shatters in a single stroke and never quite reassembles; the ledger of credibility has no eraser.
One scare lasts to the grave — wade salt water once, remember the barnacles forever.
Seen once beats told ten times — one look retires ten rumors.
Stepped in dung once, so chop off the foot — remedy grotesquely outsizing offense.
A morsel mid-village outweighs a basketful in the kitchen corner — honor eaten publicly beats plenty eaten alone.
A morsel in hunger equals a bowl in plenty — the timing of a kindness is most of its size.
One sealed mouth against ten leaking — discretion is outnumbered ten to one.
One betel quid makes a daughter-in-law — the smallest token, properly given, seals a marriage.
Alone with the whole market — no rivals in sight: free to act, price or win however you like, because nobody else showed up.
Whole, it's plenty; shared out, it's scraps — division is where abundance goes to die.
two targets with one arrow
describing a struggle to the last; like a struggle to the finish; all-out; life-and-death
One visit outweighs ten parcels — showing your face is the gift; packages are wrapping.
One human face is worth ten faces of treasure — no property outbids a person.
one trade to be chín (“well done; ripe”) is better than chín (“nine”) trades
One trade holds tight; nine trades leak — mastery is watertight only undivided.
One day a harlot, three days a wife — intimacy ripens fast into obligation; nearness thickens the bond.
One day makes the bond, one character makes the teacher — even the least instruction earns the title.
One who plans equals a warehouse of workers — foresight is the highest-yield labor.
One person arrives, the whole clan is provided for — success is a communal utility.
One person's disgrace stains the whole company — a single worm and the soup-pot is poured out.
One tray of silkworms is five trays of cocoons — every stage multiplies the work just fed into it.
Enduring long, hard toil — usually of farmers or laborers working from before dawn to after dusk.
Laughter is the best medicine.
"one country, two systems" (the principle that Hong Kong and Macau can have political and economic systems distinct from Mainland China's socialism)