một câu nhịn, bằng chín câu lành

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Meaning · English

One swallowed retort is worth nine kind sentences — restraint is the cheapest peace ever bought.

Literally: one forbearance equals nine goodnesses

Examples

Nhịn đi em, một câu nhịn bằng chín câu lành.Let it go — one held tongue is worth nine kind words.

Editorial example (VI sweep batch 040, illustrative)

Sources & notes

Discovered via Tục ngữ, cổ ngữ, gia ngôn (Huỳnh Tịnh Của, 1897; public domain, via vi.wikisource); retrieved 2026-08-01. Source: source ↗ Attested in Tục ngữ, cổ ngữ, gia ngôn (Huỳnh Tịnh Của, 1897). Definition is an original editorial synthesis, not copied from the source.

Common questions

What does “một câu nhịn, bằng chín câu lành” mean?

One swallowed retort is worth nine kind sentences — restraint is the cheapest peace ever bought. Literally: one forbearance equals nine goodnesses

Is “một câu nhịn, bằng chín câu lành” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.