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Hatred is as blind as love.
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Hatred is as blind as love.
The statue frets for the paste-jar, the jar for the statue — mutual dependence fretting in both directions.
Strike in anger, cherish in loneliness — the family bond swings but never severs.
Snatching from the fish's head to patch the shrimp's — repairs funded by adjacent shortages.
Tugging won't break it, snapping won't free it — an entanglement proof against both patience and force.
Raiders can't ruin you like your own house burning — the inside catastrophe beats the outside one.
When the invader reaches the house, even the women fight — the nation's line that every child learns.
The jay in fine feathers — plumage impeccable, substance absent.
Where the well is, the frog is — the evidence lives at the scene; find the well, charge the frog.
Killing the dog to counsel the husband — the folk-tale wife's drastic object lesson; a shock staged for someone's own good.
use a sledgehammer to crack a nut
Take a life, answer with your own — homicide's oldest invoice.
Every house's basket has its own handle — each family bears its own stamp and mold.
laundry basket
"Well done!" — sincere praise to juniors and students; said flatly to an adult it flips into pure sarcasm. Tone is everything.
like two peas in a pod
Plant the tree, and someday eat its fruit — patience with roots.
High heaven, thick earth — the immensities; what the reckless never measured.
Heaven has eyes — wrongs are witnessed, whatever the courts miss.
Flipping the face like flipping a palm — allegiance reversed in one wrist-turn.
"Take care of your health" — the parting blessing to elders, travelers, and anyone you won't see for a while; deeper than "bye".
Guarding mouth and lips — watching one's words to stay out of trouble.
to give up halfway through a task; (of love) to be unfinished
To quietly accumulate — buy a stock little by little so the price never jumps, building a position before the markup begins.
initialism of giao thông vận tải (“traffic and transport”)
The rooster dies of its own crowing — boasting is what brings the knife.
The hen is bold near her coop — bravery within sprinting distance of safety.
Roosters hate each other over one crow — grudges seeded by a single note of precedence.
A rooster crowing at the wrong hour — the classic ill omen.
A wise rooster doesn't spar with the flock; a wise girl doesn't quit her village — prudence keeps its home ground.
A chick that lost the mother hen — cheeping in circles; any charge suddenly unled.
The chick sprouting its first down — youth at its most confident and least fledged.
A chicken sprouting a shrimp's tail — the upstart's first small flourish.
The hen lays, then cackles the alarm — doing the deed and raising the cry, as if another did it.
working girl; female prostitute; literally "flower-selling girl"
A married woman wears the cangue at her neck — the old verse's grim portrait of wifehood.
A daughter like her father enriches three clans; a son like his mother beggars three generations — the old cross-resemblance arithmetic.
A wife older by two, a husband by one — the folk formula for a matched pair.
Even a sensible girl, courted long enough, leans — persistence outlasts prudence.
A woman unmarried is a boat without a rudder — so ran the old verse, steering by husband.
A girl of seventeen can snap a buffalo’s horn — youth at its peak brims with strength and appetite for the world; said of teenagers (girls especially) at the height of their vigor.
A capable wife holds office for her husband — running the household so well she governs his standing too.
Women covet means, men covet looks — desire's oldest division of labor.
A woman of the four garrisons — the drifting demimonde of the old towns.
A streetwalker — a woman soliciting on the street. Blunt and contemptuous in most mouths; the phrase is also thrown as pure insult with no literal meaning intended, which is reason enough to handle it with care.
Carrying the altar-table for hire — shouldering solemn burdens that were never yours.
Haul your misery up the mountain and dump it; bend your back and run — misery still follows behind.
To carry the team — doing everyone’s share while teammates spectate.
Hauling gold into the treasury — labor whose whole profit lands in official vaults.
Plowing for hire, hoeing for wages — the landless day's labor, sold field by field.
Sowing feuds and buying grudges — making enemies whose hatred comes back on you.
to administer an epidural; epidural anesthesia
Scratching right where it itches — hitting exactly what someone was hoping for.
Scratching head and ear — squirming over something awkward to say or solve.
Bring it on.
Northern "what was that? / come again?" — polite non-comprehension; "cơ" is a distinctly Hà Nội particle.
Southern "what? / what's that?" — from genuine question to mild outrage ("cái gì vậy trời!") depending on volume.
Count on it hard and watch it miss — what's banked on never lands; the accidental arrives instead.
Age sprouts infirmities as soil sprouts weeds — the years plant what they please.
The mounds of the Isles of Bliss — a woman's breasts, in Hồ Xuân Hương's sly classical geography.