trai mà chi, gái mà chi Sinh ra có nghĩa có nghì là hơn Sinh con ai nỡ sinh lòng Sinh con ai chẳng vun trồng cho con
What matters boy, what matters girl — a child of duty and gratitude is the better birth — the verse against preferring sons.
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What matters boy, what matters girl — a child of duty and gratitude is the better birth — the verse against preferring sons.
Talented men and beautiful women — the classical matched pair; each sex graded on its old currency.
Striking poses and arranging appearances — performance in place of substance.
Texting shortcut for “trước” — before / first. “đi trc nha” = heading out first.
when bamboos grow old, young shoots spring up
The bamboo weeps for the shoot — a parent burying a child; grief in the wrong order.
Young bamboo bends easily — training is a property of greenness.
To advertise one thing but deliver another — deceptive marketing or bait-and-switch.
Knowing the crime and not reporting — concealment convicted as complicity.
Know sufficiency and be always sufficient — a life unhumiliated to its end.
No one knows the child like the father — parenthood is the longest observation.
Breakfast at dawn, lodging at dusk — the traveler's steady rhythm of road and rest.
Three at dawn and four at dusk — the monkey-keeper's shuffle; the same total, resold as a concession.
every cloud has a silver lining
... in two minutes.
... in fifteen minutes.
... in a minute.
... in an hour.
Unclear inside the house, already known out in the lane — the household's secrets commute faster than its members.
... in half an hour.
A firefly indoors, a torch outdoors — glow saved for the audience, dark kept for the family.
What in the marsh is lovelier than the lotus — green leaf, white bloom, gold stamens — near the mud yet never smelling of mud — Vietnam's emblem of integrity.
Warm within, calm without — the well-run household's climate report.
Honest words offend the ear — counsel's truest note is the one that grates.
to be loyal to the monarch and love the country; loyalty to the monarch and love for the country
The loyal fear no death; the death-fearing are not loyal — allegiance is priced in exactly one currency.
tourist information office
Announce it down the generations — a standing threat: obey, or the punishment will find you.
Blame the one who schemed too widely — plum already picked, and reaching to snap the peach besides.
Blame the nameless 'gentleman' — done with the flower, he breaks the branch and hawks it — the seducer's full itinerary.
When the wind crosses and the sky turns — the aches of changing weather; moods that turn with it.
Cross-grained in temper and habit — a nature that rubs everyone the wrong way.
Yielding to the elephant shames no one's face — stepping aside from the overwhelming is sense, not cowardice.
away from the watermelon rind, into the coconut shell
Rare birds and strange beasts — exotic treasures of the menagerie.
The chained water buffalo hates the water buffalo that grazes.
The fat buffalo hauls for the thin — strength's duty to carry what weakness can't.
When the strong-willed members of a group butt heads, the bystanders suffer.
The sore-backed buffalo shies at every passing crow — a wound installs its own lookout.
Buffaloes plow, horses are ridden — each creature issued its own employment at birth.
robbing the cradle
A buffalo's cough equals an ox's bellow — the great man's smallest ailment outweighs the small man's crisis.
No offers while the buffalo lives; a dozen knives when it falls — vultures respect only the moment of collapse.
The buffalo seeks the post, never the post the buffalo — the dependent goes to the anchor: servant to master, child to parent.
Trampled by buffalo or elephant, dead either way — the gambler's shrug: if losing, lose big.
Each field's buffalo grazes its own field — marry in the village, and let no outsider's beast in.
the bigger they are, the harder they fall
Slip-ups becomes more consequential, the more influence you have.
to impotent, unable to achieve or sustain an erection, having impotentia coeundi
Respect upward, yield downward — the well-ordered household's two directions of courtesy.
over or under par
Harmony above, concord below — the whole hierarchy at peace.
Tease the stork and it pecks your eye — bait the patient bird at your own risk.
Mind rounded, conduct squared — thought should turn freely; behavior should keep corners.
The wise see roughly alike — climb high enough and every summit shows one view.
The wise err once in a thousand thoughts; the fool scores once — humility for one, hope for the other; even a madman's word is worth the sages' sifting.
A fault understood and corrected is cancelled; understood and kept, it doubles.
Round of rim, clear of letters — enunciation polished until every word stands whole.
Drifted downriver, strayed through markets — the unhoused and unregistered, current-borne.
Trôn — Vietnamized 'troll': to wind someone up online for laughs.