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Facing death as a homecoming — courage that reads the grave as a return address.
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Facing death as a homecoming — courage that reads the grave as a return address.
Meat and fish and suchlike — the protein end of the market, spoken of loosely.
red meat and white meat
The debtor resents the creditor — gratitude curdles fastest in the borrowed hand.
Receiving wealth is receiving an arrow — every gift arrives fletched with obligation.
Fed on favor and perquisite — thriving on others' help until working feels optional.
to put a spoke in someone's wheel; to throw a spanner in the works
Lisping like a three-year-old — grown, and still babbling in milk-teeth.
A crock of fish-paste hung at the shelf's edge — arrangements one bump from disaster.
Hands too slow for the moment — caught before a single move was ready.
The fox mourns the rabbit — grief among kindred kinds; when your like falls, your own cold comes closer.
Step back one pace and the world widens — yielding buys room the stubborn never see.
The top millstone wears, and so does the bottom — in every grinding lawsuit, both stones lose face.
Honor your teacher to become one — mastery is inherited through respect.
the time creates the hero
How’s the weather?
What awful weather!
The blacksmith without a betel knife — supplying every house but his own.
Bearing bitterness and shouldering hardship — endurance as a full-time occupation.
Guarding the stump, awaiting the rabbit — one accident enshrined as a strategy.
Guard the mouth like a stoppered jar — sealed speech, walled intentions.
Guarding one's own body is the great charge — self-preservation as first duty.
The mouse at the burrow's lip, in and out — commitment that pokes its head and pulls it back.
Head and tail answering each other — the two-headed snake's defense; touch either end, the other strikes.
Water too clear keeps no fish; a person too exacting keeps no friends — every bond needs a little silt.
Water carries the boat and water capsizes it — the people bear the throne, and can turn it over.
Water flows to the lowest place — and so does every loss; the underling's share is obedience and the bill.
Trawling the moon from the water — labor spent on a reflection.
The three domestic miseries, ranked: a foolish spouse, a leaky roof, a blunt machete — the folk list of everyday torments a man grumbles he cannot escape. A relic of its era about marriage, quoted today mostly for the comic ranking.
Late to bed, early to rise — industry measured in lost sleep.
Stay up late and learn how long the night is; live with someone long and learn whether their heart is kind — duration is the only test.
to fish in troubled waters
Riding the wind, breaking the waves — ambition under full sail.
The mouse into the granary — landed amid plenty, the Sino-Vietnamese cousin of the mouse in the rice jar.
"Can I try it?" — clothes, shoes, a taste at the market; permission-first plus a smile opens every fitting room.
Food that never fills the gut — poverty measured at the stomach.
Bowed torso and bended knee — servility in its full Sino-Vietnamese dress.
Slit eel's eyes — the narrow gaze folk wisdom assigns to the untrustworthy.
So awful even ghosts complain and demons sulk — repellent past the supernatural's own standards.
Trust a friend, lose a wife — the proverb's grimmest audit of misplaced confidence.
Trust the rogue, lose the ox — confidence invested at the predictable address.
to take something (usually a fraudulent claim) as a matter of fact without further inspection; to be too credulous
Crestfallen as a cat with a cropped ear — deflation you can see from across the yard.
The first-awakened wake the later — whoever sees earlier owes the seeing.
learn manners first, then learn literature
First come, then arrived — precedence by order of appearance; the queue as law.
Congenitally insufficient — frail from birth; weak in one's very constitution.
First the host, then the guest — precedence at the door, deference at the table.
Judge yourself before judging others — your own case is always first on the docket.
Pity the pearl-white grain of rice — washed in muddy water, then rolled in straw-char — worth spoiled by wrong handling.
Regret that tears the gut — remorse with physical symptoms.
it's difficult either to advance or to retreat.
Good news travels far; bad news travels three days' road faster — reputation's two speeds.
The voice of silk and bronze — the sound of stringed music; an old name for the zither's song.
Two-faced as a lead coin — brazenness stamped on both sides.
Rice and money are mother's and father's; the inkstone and brush are truly mine — the scholar-child's declaration of estate.
Fierce at first, kind at last — the storm that clears into a good ending.
Before and after never matching — a story, or a person, inconsistent with itself.
Money in Đọc, rice in Nhữ, letters in Chằm — three villages, three forms of wealth.
wasting money in something potentially devious in hope of a return but only ends up in a worse off state