You scratch my back and I will scratch yours
Proposed by a contributor, not yet supported by evidence.
Meaning · English
If you help me, I will help you in return.
Literally: mutual back scratching
Where it’s used:
Used
Widespread English
Sources & notes
Listed on Wikipedia “List of proverbial phrases” (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-29); definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-07-30; pending editor spot-check.
Common questions
What does “You scratch my back and I will scratch yours” mean?
If you help me, I will help you in return. Literally: mutual back scratching
Is “You scratch my back and I will scratch yours” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.