Yêu nhau cho nhau ăn cháy, ghét nhau nói nhau cạy nồi
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When in love, couples tolerate each other's flaws, but when in conflict, they criticize each other's minor mistakes
Khi yêu, các cặp đôi chấp nhận khuyết điểm của nhau, nhưng khi xung đột, họ chỉ trích những lỗi nhỏ của nhau
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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.
Common questions
What does “Yêu nhau cho nhau ăn cháy, ghét nhau nói nhau cạy nồi” mean?
When in love, couples tolerate each other's flaws, but when in conflict, they criticize each other's minor mistakes Literally: Love each other to feed each other burnt food, hate each other to tell each other to pry open the pot
Is “Yêu nhau cho nhau ăn cháy, ghét nhau nói nhau cạy nồi” formal or informal?
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