wallflower
Preserved but no longer current.
Meaning · English
A person who goes to a ball and looks on without dancing, either from choice or through not being able to obtain a partner. From the position.
Era: ca. 1874 (Victorian)
Where it’s used:
Origin
British & Irish English
Sources & notes
Historical definition reproduced from Hotten’s The Slang Dictionary (1874, public domain; Project Gutenberg #42108, retrieved 2026-07-31). Reflects the attitudes of its era.
Common questions
What does “wallflower” mean?
A person who goes to a ball and looks on without dancing, either from choice or through not being able to obtain a partner. From the position.
Is “wallflower” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.