trâu tìm cột, cột chẳng tìm trâu

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Meaning · English

The buffalo seeks the post, never the post the buffalo — the dependent goes to the anchor: servant to master, child to parent.

Literally: buffalo seeks the stake; the stake seeks no buffalo

Examples

Mình phải đến chào trước, trâu tìm cột chớ cột chẳng tìm trâu.We call on them first — the buffalo seeks the post, never the reverse.

Editorial example (VI sweep batch 040, illustrative)

Sources & notes

Discovered via Tục ngữ, cổ ngữ, gia ngôn (Huỳnh Tịnh Của, 1897; public domain, via vi.wikisource); retrieved 2026-08-01. Source: source ↗ Attested in Tục ngữ, cổ ngữ, gia ngôn (Huỳnh Tịnh Của, 1897). Definition is an original editorial synthesis, not copied from the source.

Common questions

What does “trâu tìm cột, cột chẳng tìm trâu” mean?

The buffalo seeks the post, never the post the buffalo — the dependent goes to the anchor: servant to master, child to parent. Literally: buffalo seeks the stake; the stake seeks no buffalo

Is “trâu tìm cột, cột chẳng tìm trâu” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.