Trai con một thì lấy, gái con một thì đừng

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Meaning · English

A family with only one son should marry him off, but a family with only one daughter should not

Literally: Son one then take, daughter one then don't

Examples

Gia đình tôi chỉ có một con gái, nên tôi thường nói trai con một thì lấy, gái con một thì đừngMy family has only one daughter, so I often say a family with only one son should marry him off, but a family with only one daughter should not

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Trai con một thì lấy, gái con một thì đừng” mean?

A family with only one son should marry him off, but a family with only one daughter should not Literally: Son one then take, daughter one then don't

Is “Trai con một thì lấy, gái con một thì đừng” formal or informal?

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