Trai chê thì để, gái chê thì bồi
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A man who is rejected will give up, but a woman who is rejected will try to win back
Examples
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Sources & notes
Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.
Common questions
What does “Trai chê thì để, gái chê thì bồi” mean?
A man who is rejected will give up, but a woman who is rejected will try to win back Literally: Man scolds then leaves, woman scolds then follows
Is “Trai chê thì để, gái chê thì bồi” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.