tone police
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Meaning · English
To complain about the tone of one or more participants in a debate or discussion, especially one perceived as heated, disrespectful, etc.
Register: derogatory, slang
Where it’s used:
Used
American English
Examples
Many white women will tone police, dominate conversation, and then when challenged follow the following playbook[…]
Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)
Sources & notes
Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).
Common questions
What does “tone police” mean?
To complain about the tone of one or more participants in a debate or discussion, especially one perceived as heated, disrespectful, etc.
Is “tone police” formal or informal?
tone police is generally derogatory, slang.