Thương con bằng roi, con đói thì thương con bằng cơm

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Meaning · English

Love and care for children is shown through discipline and provision

Literally: Love children with stick, children are hungry then love children with rice

Examples

Bố mẹ thương con bằng roi, con đói thì thương con bằng cơmParents love their children with a stick, but when they're hungry, they love them with rice

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Thương con bằng roi, con đói thì thương con bằng cơm” mean?

Love and care for children is shown through discipline and provision Literally: Love children with stick, children are hungry then love children with rice

Is “Thương con bằng roi, con đói thì thương con bằng cơm” formal or informal?

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