Thức lâu mới biết đêm dài, ở lâu mới biết là người dở hay

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Meaning · English

You only appreciate someone's true nature after spending time with them

Literally: stay long to know if person is good or bad

Examples

Sau một thời gian làm việc chung, tôi mới nhận ra anh ấy là người dở hayAfter working together for a while, I realized he was a bad person

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Thức lâu mới biết đêm dài, ở lâu mới biết là người dở hay” mean?

You only appreciate someone's true nature after spending time with them Literally: stay long to know if person is good or bad

Is “Thức lâu mới biết đêm dài, ở lâu mới biết là người dở hay” formal or informal?

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