thua giời một vạn, còn hơn thua bạn một ly
In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.
Lose ten thousand to heaven before one hair to a friend — defeat by fate is bearable; by a peer, never.
Examples
Editorial example (VI sweep batch 040, illustrative)
Sources & notes
Discovered via Nam ngạn chích cẩm (Phạm Quang Sán, 1918; public domain, via vi.wikisource); retrieved 2026-08-01. Source: source ↗ Attested in Nam ngạn chích cẩm (Phạm Quang Sán, 1918). Definition is an original editorial synthesis, not copied from the source.
Common questions
What does “thua giời một vạn, còn hơn thua bạn một ly” mean?
Lose ten thousand to heaven before one hair to a friend — defeat by fate is bearable; by a peer, never. Literally: lose a myriad to heaven rather than a hair to a friend
Is “thua giời một vạn, còn hơn thua bạn một ly” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.