take the L

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Meaning · English

To take the loss: to lose a game or competition and to accept that fact; to make a mistake or to otherwise be beset with unfortunate circumstances and recognize the outcome.

Register: slang

Where it’s used: Used American English

Examples

Dom (David Jonsson): Please tell me you dumped his arse right there and then. […] Yas (Vivian Oparah): Nope. I took a big L and got this prick some fucking hummus.

Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).

Common questions

What does “take the L” mean?

To take the loss: to lose a game or competition and to accept that fact; to make a mistake or to otherwise be beset with unfortunate circumstances and recognize the outcome.

Is “take the L” formal or informal?

take the L is generally slang.