rub someone the wrong way
Proposed by a contributor, not yet supported by evidence.
Meaning · English
to annoy or irritate someone
Literally: causing friction on someone's skin
Where it’s used:
Used
Widespread English
Examples
' Well, he rubs me up the wrong way.
Instead, here she was, creeping around her own house like a burglar, trying to avoid a man who rubbed her up the wrong way.
British National Corpus sentence via the MAGPIE corpus (CC BY 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)
Sources & notes
Listed in Wiktionary’s “English idioms” category (retrieved 2026-07-29); definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-07-31; pending editor spot-check.
Common questions
What does “rub someone the wrong way” mean?
to annoy or irritate someone Literally: causing friction on someone's skin
Is “rub someone the wrong way” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.