play gooseberry

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Meaning · English

To be an unwanted third party accompanying two lovers, to serve as a chaperon.

Register: dated, slang

Examples

"Well, new experiences are broadening. Come along, and you'll be able to sympathize with all poor souls who have to play gooseberry often.

Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).

Common questions

What does “play gooseberry” mean?

To be an unwanted third party accompanying two lovers, to serve as a chaperon.

Is “play gooseberry” formal or informal?

play gooseberry is generally dated, slang.