pillow princess
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Meaning · English
A person (typically a lesbian) who wants to receive sexual pleasure but is not interested in giving it.
Register: slang
Where it’s used:
Used
American English
Examples
These roles extended into the bedroom, where the butch would initiate and give sexual pleasure and the femme would play “pillow princess” and receive — never the other way around [...]
Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)
Sources & notes
Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).
Common questions
What does “pillow princess” mean?
A person (typically a lesbian) who wants to receive sexual pleasure but is not interested in giving it.
Is “pillow princess” formal or informal?
pillow princess is generally slang.