English · Slang Attested

pick-me girl

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Meaning · English

A woman who asserts that she is unlike (and sometimes better than) most other women, in order to gain attention, approval, or validation from men.

Nghĩa · Tiếng Việt

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⚠ Register: derogatory

Where it’s used: Used American English

Coordinate term: pick-me boy

Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).

Common questions

What does “pick-me girl” mean?

A woman who asserts that she is unlike (and sometimes better than) most other women, in order to gain attention, approval, or validation from men.

Is “pick-me girl” formal or informal?

pick-me girl is generally derogatory.

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