lead, follow, or get out of the way

In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.

Meaning · English

One should either take initiative, help someone who is taking initiative, or avoid hindering those who are taking initiative.

Nghĩa · Tiếng Việt

Nên либо lãnh đạo, hỗ trợ người lãnh đạo, hoặc tránh cản trở người lãnh đạo

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Where it’s used: Used American English

Examples

Whether it’s a hesitating driver or a daydreaming queue-stander, I suspect that British and American participants alike would appreciate everyone involved to either lead, follow, or get out of the way. […] And so we meet the perspective: lead, follow, or get out of the way. Do what you’re here to do

Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).

Common questions

What does “lead, follow, or get out of the way” mean?

One should either take initiative, help someone who is taking initiative, or avoid hindering those who are taking initiative.

Is “lead, follow, or get out of the way” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.