Làm rể chớ nấu thịt trâu, làm dâu chớ đồ xôi lại

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Meaning · English

Don't overstep boundaries in your in-laws' household

Literally: Be son-in-law don't cook buffalo meat, be daughter-in-law don't re-steam rice

Examples

Khi mới làm dâu, cô ấy đã phạm phải lỗi làm dâu chớ đồ xôi lạiWhen she first became a daughter-in-law, she made the mistake of overstepping her boundaries

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.

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What does “Làm rể chớ nấu thịt trâu, làm dâu chớ đồ xôi lại” mean?

Don't overstep boundaries in your in-laws' household Literally: Be son-in-law don't cook buffalo meat, be daughter-in-law don't re-steam rice

Is “Làm rể chớ nấu thịt trâu, làm dâu chớ đồ xôi lại” formal or informal?

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