làm ơn nên oán, làm bạn thiệt mình

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Meaning · English

Doing good deeds can lead to resentment, while being friends can result in personal loss

Literally: doing favors incur resentment, making friends harm oneself

Examples

Anh ấy làm ơn nên oán, làm bạn thiệt mình khi giúp đỡ người bạn cũHe did good deeds and incurred resentment, and was harmed by his old friend

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Sources & notes

Discovered via Nam ngạn chích cẩm (Phạm Quang Sán, 1918; public domain, via vi.wikisource); retrieved 2026-08-01. Source: source ↗ Attested in Nam ngạn chích cẩm (Phạm Quang Sán, 1918). Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-01; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “làm ơn nên oán, làm bạn thiệt mình” mean?

Doing good deeds can lead to resentment, while being friends can result in personal loss Literally: doing favors incur resentment, making friends harm oneself

Is “làm ơn nên oán, làm bạn thiệt mình” formal or informal?

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