Khôn ngoan đá đáp người ta, anh em trong nhà đừng đá lẫn nhau
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Meaning · English
Be polite to outsiders, but honest with family
Literally: Be clever in answering people, siblings don't kick each other
Examples
Khi gặp khách, tôi luôn khôn ngoan đá đáp người ta, anh em trong nhà đừng đá lẫn nhauWhen meeting guests, I'm always polite, but with my siblings, we can be honest
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Sources & notes
Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.
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Common questions
What does “Khôn ngoan đá đáp người ta, anh em trong nhà đừng đá lẫn nhau” mean?
Be polite to outsiders, but honest with family Literally: Be clever in answering people, siblings don't kick each other
Is “Khôn ngoan đá đáp người ta, anh em trong nhà đừng đá lẫn nhau” formal or informal?
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