Khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, dở dở ương ương tổ người ta ghét

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Meaning · English

Be clever and people will fear you, be foolish and people will pity you, but be annoying and people will hate you

Nghĩa · Tiếng Việt

Bị thông minh làm sợ, bị dại làm thương tiếc, nhưng bị khó chịu làm ghét

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Literally: Clever for people to fear, foolish for people to love, half and half and people hate

Examples

Anh ấy khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, nhưng cách hành xử dở dở ương ương của anh ấy khiến mọi người ghétHe's clever so people fear him, foolish so people pity him, but his annoying behavior makes people hate him

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, dở dở ương ương tổ người ta ghét” mean?

Be clever and people will fear you, be foolish and people will pity you, but be annoying and people will hate you Literally: Clever for people to fear, foolish for people to love, half and half and people hate

Is “Khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, dở dở ương ương tổ người ta ghét” formal or informal?

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