Khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, dở dở ương ương tổ cho người ta ghét

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Meaning · English

Be smart and people will fear you, be foolish and people will pity you, but be annoying and people will hate you

Nghĩa · Tiếng Việt

Bị thông minh làm sợ, bị dại làm thương tiếc, nhưng bị khó chịu làm ghét

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Literally: Intelligent gives people awe, foolish gives people love, stubborn gives people hatred

Examples

Anh ấy khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, dở dở ương ương tổ cho người ta ghét nên không ai muốn làm việc với anh ấyHe's smart so people fear him, foolish so people pity him, but annoying so people hate him, that's why nobody wants to work with him

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, dở dở ương ương tổ cho người ta ghét” mean?

Be smart and people will fear you, be foolish and people will pity you, but be annoying and people will hate you Literally: Intelligent gives people awe, foolish gives people love, stubborn gives people hatred

Is “Khôn cho người ta rái, dại cho người ta thương, dở dở ương ương tổ cho người ta ghét” formal or informal?

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