Khôn cho người rái, dại cho người thương, chớ có dở ương người ta đánh què

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Meaning · English

Be clever with enemies, foolish with loved ones, and don't be stubborn with those who can harm you

Literally: Clever for those who hate, foolish for those who love, don't be stubborn with people who can break your legs

Examples

Anh ấy khôn cho người rái, dại cho người thương, chớ có dở ương người ta đánh què, nên luôn được mọi người yêu mếnHe is clever with enemies, foolish with loved ones, and doesn't be stubborn with those who can harm him, so he is always loved by everyone

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.

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What does “Khôn cho người rái, dại cho người thương, chớ có dở ương người ta đánh què” mean?

Be clever with enemies, foolish with loved ones, and don't be stubborn with those who can harm you Literally: Clever for those who hate, foolish for those who love, don't be stubborn with people who can break your legs

Is “Khôn cho người rái, dại cho người thương, chớ có dở ương người ta đánh què” formal or informal?

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