if you can't beat them, join them
Proposed by a contributor, not yet supported by evidence.
Meaning · English
If you can't win or succeed, cooperate or participate instead
Nghĩa · Tiếng Việt
Nếu bạn không thể thắng hoặc thành công, hãy hợp tác hoặc tham gia thay vào đó
Machine-translated — suggest a fix
Literally: defeating or joining an opposing group
Where it’s used:
Used
Widespread English
Sources & notes
Listed on Wikipedia “List of proverbial phrases” (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-29); definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-07-30; pending editor spot-check.
Advertisement
Ad space — ads help keep Idiomer free. Premium will remove them.
Common questions
What does “if you can't beat them, join them” mean?
If you can't win or succeed, cooperate or participate instead Literally: defeating or joining an opposing group
Is “if you can't beat them, join them” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.
Advertisement
Ad space — ads help keep Idiomer free. Premium will remove them.