Hay thì ở, dở thì xéo
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Meaning · English
To take the good and leave the bad
Literally: good then stay, bad then kick
Examples
Cô ấy chọn bạn hay thì ở, dở thì xéo, không muốn mất thời gian cho những người không xứng đáng.She chooses to take the good and leave the bad, doesn't want to waste time on undeserving people.
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Sources & notes
Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.
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Common questions
What does “Hay thì ở, dở thì xéo” mean?
To take the good and leave the bad Literally: good then stay, bad then kick
Is “Hay thì ở, dở thì xéo” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.
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