God doesn't give with both hands

In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.

Meaning · English

Nobody is gifted or lucky in all areas; someone who has talents of one kind will have flaws of another.

Where it’s used: Used American English

Examples

"Here's the thing: pretty and funny and a good actress—that's a hard combination," says casting director Lisa Miller Katz (Everybody Loves Raymond). 'God doesn't give with both hands' is the saying."

Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).

Common questions

What does “God doesn't give with both hands” mean?

Nobody is gifted or lucky in all areas; someone who has talents of one kind will have flaws of another.

Is “God doesn't give with both hands” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.