Tiếng Việt · Proverb Candidate

Giận thì đánh, quạnh thì thương

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Meaning · English

Love and punish children appropriately

Literally: Angry then hit, lonely then love

Examples

Mẹ giận thì đánh, quạnh thì thương conThe mother is angry then hits, but when lonely, she loves her child

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Sources & notes

Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Giận thì đánh, quạnh thì thương” mean?

Love and punish children appropriately Literally: Angry then hit, lonely then love

Is “Giận thì đánh, quạnh thì thương” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.

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