eat one's cake and have it too
Proposed by a contributor, not yet supported by evidence.
Meaning · English
enjoy two things that are mutually exclusive
Literally: consume food and still possess it
Where it’s used:
Used
Widespread English
Examples
She wants to eat her cake and have it too by marrying a rich man and still being independent
AI-drafted example auto-approved by rule (illustrative, not a corpus attestation)
Sources & notes
Listed in Wiktionary’s “English idioms” category (retrieved 2026-07-29); definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-07-30; pending editor spot-check.
Common questions
What does “eat one's cake and have it too” mean?
enjoy two things that are mutually exclusive Literally: consume food and still possess it
Is “eat one's cake and have it too” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.