Được lòng bà vãi, mất lòng ông sư

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Meaning · English

To please one person, you must displease another

Literally: Please the lady, offend the monk

Examples

Anh ấy muốn được lòng bà vãi, mất lòng ông sư khi quyết định kết hônHe pleased his wife but offended his parents-in-law when deciding to get married

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Được lòng bà vãi, mất lòng ông sư” mean?

To please one person, you must displease another Literally: Please the lady, offend the monk

Is “Được lòng bà vãi, mất lòng ông sư” formal or informal?

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