đứa ăn mắm đứa khát nước

In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.

Also seen as: kẻ ăn mắm, người khát nước

Meaning · English

One eats the fish-paste, another gets the thirst — the pleasure booked to one account, the bill to another.

Literally: one eats mắm, another thirsts

Examples

Sếp ký bừa, lính gánh hậu quả, đứa ăn mắm đứa khát nước.The boss signed carelessly and the staff drink the thirst — one ate the mắm, another parches.

Editorial example (VI sweep batch 040, illustrative)

Sources & notes

Discovered via Tục ngữ, cổ ngữ, gia ngôn (Huỳnh Tịnh Của, 1897; public domain, via vi.wikisource); retrieved 2026-08-01. Source: source ↗ Attested in Tục ngữ, cổ ngữ, gia ngôn (Huỳnh Tịnh Của, 1897). Definition is an original editorial synthesis, not copied from the source.

Common questions

What does “đứa ăn mắm đứa khát nước” mean?

One eats the fish-paste, another gets the thirst — the pleasure booked to one account, the bill to another. Literally: one eats mắm, another thirsts

Is “đứa ăn mắm đứa khát nước” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.