do as I say and not as I do

In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.

Also seen as: do what I say, not what I do

Meaning · English

Do not imitate my behavior but obey my instructions.

Where it’s used: Used American English

Examples

Do what I say now, not what I do The dilettantish peekaboo

Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).

Common questions

What does “do as I say and not as I do” mean?

Do not imitate my behavior but obey my instructions.

Is “do as I say and not as I do” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.