come to grips with
Proposed by a contributor, not yet supported by evidence.
Meaning · English
To finally understand or deal with a difficult situation
Nghĩa · Tiếng Việt
cuối cùng hiểu hoặc đối phó với tình huống khó khăn
Machine-translated — suggest a fix
Literally: physically grasp something
Where it’s used:
Used
Widespread English
Examples
After all, how can anyone sort out their problems if they haven't come to grips with themselves?’
I don't regret it, of course— I might never have been a priest otherwise — but I often think that that's why I just don't seem able to come to grips with the modern world.’
British National Corpus sentence via the MAGPIE corpus (CC BY 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)
Sources & notes
Listed in Wiktionary’s “English idioms” category (retrieved 2026-07-29); definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-07-30; pending editor spot-check.
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Common questions
What does “come to grips with” mean?
To finally understand or deal with a difficult situation Literally: physically grasp something
Is “come to grips with” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.
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