Có mặt: ông sứ, vắng mặt: thằng Ngô

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Meaning · English

To flatter someone when they are present, but speak ill of them when they are absent

Literally: Present: Mr. Ambassador, absent: Ngô guy

Examples

Anh ấy luôn có mặt: ông sứ, vắng mặt: thằng Ngô với sếp của mìnhHe always flatters his boss when he's around, but speaks ill of him when he's not

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-06; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Có mặt: ông sứ, vắng mặt: thằng Ngô” mean?

To flatter someone when they are present, but speak ill of them when they are absent Literally: Present: Mr. Ambassador, absent: Ngô guy

Is “Có mặt: ông sứ, vắng mặt: thằng Ngô” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.

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