Có con phải khổ vì con, có chồng phải ngậm bồ hòn đắng cay

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Meaning · English

Having a child or husband brings inevitable suffering

Literally: Have child must suffer because of child, have husband must bear bitter betel nut

Examples

Sau khi lấy chồng, cô ấy thường than thở có chồng phải ngậm bồ hòn đắng cay.After getting married, she often complained that having a husband meant bearing bitter betel nut.

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-05; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Có con phải khổ vì con, có chồng phải ngậm bồ hòn đắng cay” mean?

Having a child or husband brings inevitable suffering Literally: Have child must suffer because of child, have husband must bear bitter betel nut

Is “Có con phải khổ vì con, có chồng phải ngậm bồ hòn đắng cay” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.

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