charity begins at home
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Meaning · English
One should prioritize their family's needs before helping others.
Literally: giving to those in one's own household
Where it’s used:
Used
Widespread English
Examples
After all, charity begins at home.
' Charity begins at home, ' Ruth suggested wryly at the same time uncharitably thinking that Maria Luisa must have put Fernando under such a terrible strain over something that had nothing to do with him.
British National Corpus sentence via the MAGPIE corpus (CC BY 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)
Sources & notes
Listed on Wikipedia “List of proverbial phrases” (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-29); definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-07-30; pending editor spot-check.
Common questions
What does “charity begins at home” mean?
One should prioritize their family's needs before helping others. Literally: giving to those in one's own household
Is “charity begins at home” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.