bring oneself to

In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.

Meaning · English

To force oneself to do something (usually unpleasant); to gather the courage to do something.

Where it’s used: Used American English

Examples

He could not bring himself to ask her.

Usage example from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Adapted from English Wiktionary (CC BY-SA 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30 via kaikki.org).

Common questions

What does “bring oneself to” mean?

To force oneself to do something (usually unpleasant); to gather the courage to do something.

Is “bring oneself to” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.