bite the hand that feeds you
In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.
To harm or betray someone who has helped or supported you.
How to use it
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Describing ingratitude toward a benefactor, employer, or supporter.
Register: neutralConnotation: reproachfulEra: 18th century – present
Examples
Editorial example (illustrative, not a corpus attestation)
Sources & notes
Figurative class: Metaphor (PIE-English corpus, CC BY 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-31).
Equivalents & related
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Common questions
What does “bite the hand that feeds you” mean?
To harm or betray someone who has helped or supported you. Literally: An animal biting the hand of the person feeding it.
Is “bite the hand that feeds you” formal or informal?
bite the hand that feeds you is generally neutral; connotation: reproachful.
What is the closest equivalent?
“ăn cháo đá bát” (Tiếng Việt) — near equivalent.