Bắt người bỏ giỗ, không ai bắt người cỗ bé

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Meaning · English

No one is willing to help someone in trouble when it's convenient for them

Literally: Catch people skip ancestor worship, no one catch people have a small funeral

Examples

Anh ấy luôn nói lời ngọt ngào, nhưng khi tôi cần giúp đỡ, anh ấy lại bỏ đi, bắt người bỏ giỗ, không ai bắt người cỗ béHe always says sweet words, but when I need help, he leaves, catch people skip ancestor worship, no one catch people have a small funeral

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Sources & notes

Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-05; pending editor spot-check.

Common questions

What does “Bắt người bỏ giỗ, không ai bắt người cỗ bé” mean?

No one is willing to help someone in trouble when it's convenient for them Literally: Catch people skip ancestor worship, no one catch people have a small funeral

Is “Bắt người bỏ giỗ, không ai bắt người cỗ bé” formal or informal?

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