Ăn sao cho được mà mời, thương sao cho được vợ người mà thương
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Treat others with kindness and respect to build strong relationships
Examples
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Sources & notes
Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.
Common questions
What does “Ăn sao cho được mà mời, thương sao cho được vợ người mà thương” mean?
Treat others with kindness and respect to build strong relationships Literally: Eat however to have, invite; love however to have, wife of people to love
Is “Ăn sao cho được mà mời, thương sao cho được vợ người mà thương” formal or informal?
No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.